Hi Doug,
I can certainly relate to the first two paragraphs in the quoted text. I moved down from Sydney quite a few years ago and I never really noticed any of the stuff which seems absolutely rampant in Melbourne. Seemed the minute I started driving in Melbourne I was always getting infuriated at the dangerous things many of the drivers were doing. There seems to be a lot of anger and aggressiveness here.
On the other side of the coin I'm very surprised at your intense dislike of reversing into car parking spaces. I regularly reverse into car parking spaces for the following logical reasons:
1) I can reverse into a car parking space quicker than I can reverse out. When reversing out my veiw is heavilly blocked and generally too many drivers aren't courtious to those backing out of a parking space. It is therefore safer and easier for myself to reverse in and drive out forwards.
2) I have full view everywhere when reversing in, the opposite of reversing out. I have to reverse one time so I may as well choose the easier one.
3) There is a sum total of 2 possible drivers waiting for you: one when you are going in and one when you are going out. The sum total of these two drivers waiting time is less because the much lengthened time of me carefully backing out due to a blocked view is much longer than the time it takes me to back in. The driving forwards out of the space is about the same as what would be the driving forwards into the space so they just cancel each other out.
If a drivers skills are pretty bad then perhaps part of what you say makes some sense. Reversing into a parking space would probably be a lot more difficult and take a lot more time for them than reversing out into the open traffic area. I think I too would get a bit cheesed off with them taking forever to reverse in because their bad skills.