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Felder
14th September 2006, 11:02 AM
Around two months ago, I sat back and had a good look at my life. And I liked what I saw. I have a wife whom I love as much as the day I married her and a daughter who has a knack of turning me into a gibbering idiot whenever I see her. The house that we are paying off is decent without being flashy, as is the car that we own. I have a great job in an industry that I thoroughly enjoy, and work with a couple of great blokes, which means that Monday to Friday is not a grind. Life was good.:)
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And as I sat back and reflected upon my general good fortunes, I made a decision. I decided that I was ready for the next stage in my life. I decided that I was ready to turn 30.:o
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Now I please don’t get me wrong. I am not in the habit of going out and making hasty decisions about life’s big events. But I genuinely thought that I was ready to turn 30, and I made the decision that I would turn 30.
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Sure enough, the day came around and there was much rejoicing. My wife and daughter gave me presents, as did my family and friends. There was a surprise party held in honour of my 30<sup>th</sup> birthday, and much merriment did ensue. http://www.ubeaut.biz/cheers.gif
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But, my friends, I am here today to tell you that I was NOT ready to turn 30. It has become apparent that I was very hasty in my decision to be in my thirties, as you shall no doubt understand when you read what I have to say below.
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On the morning of my 30<sup>th</sup> birthday, I awoke with a sore back. I knew that I would wake with a sore back, as I had had it for the previous week, due to too much standing and also moving some very heavy machines in aid of the AWISA Show. As this was an injury that I had obtained when I was 29, I will not attribute this to turning 30, but it is important that you have this background knowledge.
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So a sore back for a few days, which required some physio and some stretches at home. Saturday comes along, and the aforementioned wife had organised the aforementioned surprise party in honour of my decision to turn 30. Now I would hesitate to say I was drunk, but after around a dozen beers, I thought that dancing might be a good idea. Someone threw on ‘Smells Like Teen Spirit’ by Nirvana, and someone else started the ‘slam dancing’ (ask your kids…), I just joined in. I slammed into a nuggetty little mate of mine, and heard ‘CRACK’ and felt two ribs go. Again, I refuse to admit to intoxication, but I turned to the missus and said; “Thatsh gonna be shore indamorning” before grinning idiotically and finding another beer.
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And I know that I wasn’t drunk, because I was right. It did hurt in the morning.
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Actually come to think of it, I’m always right when I’m drunk anyway, so maybe I was….:rolleyes:
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So now I have busted ribs and a sore back. My busted ribs mean I can’t do my back stretches, so my back hurts more than it should. With a crook back and crook ribs, I can neither push nor pull, therefore rendering me useless when it comes to moving machines, or even myself.:o
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I took myself to the Doc to find out if there was anything I could do for my ribs, and he looked at me square in the eye and said “Oooohh you’ve broken some ribs. That bloody hurts!” Thanks doc. He prescribed some pretty cool painkillers so that I could return to physio for my back.
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So the back is feeling a bit better and the ribs are on the mend, when I get the dreaded lurgy. http://www.ubeaut.biz/flu.gif And I keep it for about three weeks. Ribs were almost healed, until I start coughing for three weeks. OUCH! Can you imagine sneezing and coughing when you have busted ribs? For three weeks??
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Finally, after three weeks, I believed that I had shaken it, and I am ready to enjoy being 30. A whole week I had, where the only trouble was occasional cough left over from the lurgy. What a great week!:)
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Then I started to feel lethargic. I was so tired. At times, my head felt separated from my body. My first Father’s Day was marred by what I initially thought to be a hang-over, only to feel it develop throughout the day as being some manner of virus. I worked the next two days, but Tuesday arvo I was crook. And I was in <st1:city w:st="on">Newcastle</st1:city> and had to get home to the <st1 ="">Blue Mountains</st1>. I don’t know how I did it, but I did. I slept for about three hours when I got home. Then I got up to have a shower and change the sheets (I woke up in a pool of sweat), and noticed that the ‘insect bite’ that was on my belt line was looking much worse than it should. And there were more of the ‘insect bites’ appearing in other places on my body. I mentioned to the good wife that I hadn’t had the Chicken Pox before, and perhaps now I do.
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The Doc confirmed it the next day. Same doc. Looked me square in the eye and said “You have chicken pox – how old are you?”
“Thirty”, came my sheepish reply. I could tell he wouldn’t approve of my decision to turn 30.
“Thirty? Oh wow – you’re going to be really sick!”
I love my doctor.
He was right, of course – I was really sick. Not just itchy, but really crook. http://www.ubeaut.biz/blotto.bmp I slept several times a day and anywhere between ten to sixteen hours at night.
I applied Pinetarsol soap, Calamine lotion and antiseptic cream, whilst ingesting some manner of anti-biotic and numerous antihistamines. Three times a day.
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Of course, I was supposed to attend the Canberra Timber and Working With Wood Show. In fact I was supposed to drive all the machines and the stand down there on the Thursday. Emergency contingency plans were made and executed, and I was able to stay in bed.
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Now, if I look back on my life since I decided to turn 30, I see a decided pattern. It all started with a crook back, which is an ailment often reserved for old-timers. Then I busted a rib – something that an active teenager may complain of. The lurgy can fit into any time of life, but the chicken pox is usually for kids under the age of 10. My ailments seem to be getting younger and younger! What’s around the corner?? Nappy rash???:confused:
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So to all the younger members of this Forum; if you are thinking of turning 30, please take my advice. Don’t. It’s not worth it. http://www.ubeaut.biz/oldman.gif

zelk
14th September 2006, 11:11 AM
It's good to see that you haven't lost your humour!
Zelk

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 11:12 AM
:D Didn't realise you were a Pom Brendan?:D

Great whinge:D :D Does that mean I shouldn't go for 50 next year?:rolleyes:

Felder
14th September 2006, 11:17 AM
It's good to see that you haven't lost your humour!
Zelk
Maybe that's what's coming next....:(

Felder
14th September 2006, 11:19 AM
Does that mean I shouldn't go for 50 next year?:rolleyes:I'm no authority on 50, Benny. But if it's anything like 30, I would think twice before taking that step.....

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 11:26 AM
Only good thing is that its closer to retiring to full time shed time rather than working for someone else. Hope your ills come good soon mate, plenty of good times in store in your 30's. More kids on the way? They fill your days.

Cliff Rogers
14th September 2006, 11:34 AM
Geeze, I'm only 9 days into the stinking lurgi. http://www.ubeaut.biz/flu.gif

All I can say is that I'm glad I don't have busted ribs.

I know you hurt & are feeling crook but make the best of it, 30 wasn't too bad when I look back from almost 50. ;) :D

My arms aren't long enough to see what I'm doing.
There is never enough light to see what I'm doing.
My hair is leaving home, less growing on my head, more growing on my sholders, out my ears & nose & eyebrows are turning into bristle brooms.
Haven't started to tell you about the aches, pains & skin troubles...
Grizzle, grumble, mumble, just trying to make you feel better. :D

Wongo
14th September 2006, 11:49 AM
Oh Robin Robin Robin.:D :D :D

I once was a strong young man I never got sick. As soon as I turned 30 and had kids I get sick about 3-4 times every year.

Wongo
14th September 2006, 11:54 AM
BTW what are we doing tomorrow? It is Flyday afterall.

Felder
14th September 2006, 11:57 AM
BTW what are we doing tomorrow? It is Flyday afterall.
At this stage, I'll be happy if I wake up....:(

Wongo
14th September 2006, 11:59 AM
Do you want an alarm call? :D

RETIRED
14th September 2006, 12:03 PM
My ailments seem to be getting younger and younger! What’s around the corner?? Nappy rash???Change them more often.;) :D

Daddles
14th September 2006, 12:05 PM
30? I can still remember 30. I could still find easter eggs in those days. We had a ripper party. Took the boys out to snare a dinosaur while the girls got a fire going in the pit. Yeah, we had fire in those days - Charlie had worked out how to keep it under control the winter before. Good bloke Charlie. I miss him, and the experimental stone axe he was working on when he died worked a treat.

But 40 though. I'm told I had a good time on me 40th. We'd invented fermentation by then, though the brews were a tad dodgy at times. Nuff said.

Nowadays though, I have a birthday every day. Always seems appropriate somehow, and someone always leaves chocolate eggs all over the back yard for me to find. But I'd better get going, the old bladder's talkin' to me.

Ri ... err ... Ratch ... err ... Witcher ... err ... stuffit. Me!

silentC
14th September 2006, 12:06 PM
It's all down hill from here, mate. I put my arms above my head this morning and had a nice stretch and BANG out goes my neck. I have to walk around with my head on a slight angle looking out the corners of my eyes and reversing the car is a, well, pain in the neck.

Don't get me started on the arthritis in my right ankle and chronic reflux :rolleyes:

ptc
14th September 2006, 12:07 PM
Just a warning !
when you get to my age it takes three months to get rid of a crook Back.

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 12:10 PM
Geezzz Brendan, look what you have to look forward too???:D :D :D :p

Felder
14th September 2006, 12:11 PM
Do you want an alarm call? :D
I have an excellent alarm, thanks........

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 12:24 PM
Who's in charge of Fridays thread? Looks like Robin is on compo, hope your workcover is paid up Batman?

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 12:29 PM
My keyboard got a good workout last friday...............

zelk
14th September 2006, 12:58 PM
Brendan, as the saying goes "' Happy 30th, you'll enjoy it when you're 40'
Zelk

AlexS
14th September 2006, 01:24 PM
At this stage, I'll be happy if I wake up....:(
A month into my 60's, 4 days into the lurgy, sunspots frozen off yesterday, at this stage I'll be happier if I dont!:mad:

Felder
14th September 2006, 01:43 PM
Forum rule: "If there are no photos, it didn't happen."

These pics are from Day 2 of the spots. They got a fair bit angrier than these look on days three and four.

Now steady yourself folks - the attachments contain semi-newdity!:eek::eek:

Proof that it happened;

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 01:47 PM
Clever Mate.....

When I joined the dots it was an add for a Hammer Combo Machine!!!!!!!!!!

Felder
14th September 2006, 01:49 PM
When I joined the dots it was an add for a Hammer Combo Machine!!!!!!!!!!

....proving you've got one thing on your mind.

Why don't you just send me a cheque, I'll send you a machine and we can be done with it?:p

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 01:52 PM
Sounds good, just promise you wont try to cash the cheque till after delivery?????????:D :D :D :cool:

Tex B
14th September 2006, 01:54 PM
Brendan,

Zovirax for the pox (made originally for herpes but really works well on the chicken pox)

Situps for the back (yeah, I didn't believe it either, but it's true)

Enjoy the painkillers while you can.

And hang around with old farts from time to time to make yourself feel young.

Tex

Felder
14th September 2006, 02:04 PM
And hang around with old farts from time to time to make yourself feel young.

Tex

That's why I joined the forum.....:p

bennylaird
14th September 2006, 02:13 PM
What's that Son, speak up!!!!!!!!

While it wont be fun, hope your daughter gets it early and gets it out of the way. Kids these days don't get enough exposure to build up the imune system. Gotta let them play in the dirt a bit.............


Hell, just imagine getting it in your 30's................................

TEEJAY
14th September 2006, 02:34 PM
Cheer up old son, you still have your beautiful wife and beautiful child.

Have to admit though 30 has been the greatest age shock for me till now, after that age and numbers never bothered me again.

I now look forward to a birthday as an opportunity to get another tool I just can't live without :D

Let me see next one is a huge drum sander and then a huge thicknesser then some darkside handplanes - oh age is a wonderful thing ;) :D

Termite
14th September 2006, 02:53 PM
Bunch of young pups. Said to SWMBO the other week, "The only thing I hate about getting old is that it hurts so bloody much".:D

Eddie Jones
14th September 2006, 02:57 PM
I wish all youse buggers would change the subject. I turn 60 soon!

(sob......)

Skew ChiDAMN!!
14th September 2006, 03:08 PM
Yer ailments are getting younger, eh?

Ummm... I don't quite know how to put this, but let's just say that if you're jewish, nappy rash would be the last thing I'd be worried about!

AlexS
14th September 2006, 10:38 PM
Aaah, growin' old's no fun, but it sure beats the alternative.

bsrlee
14th September 2006, 10:39 PM
Young Whipper Snippers!;)

Look at this way, getting Chicken Pox at 30 means you will probably be over 100 when you get shingles - just giving you something to look forwards to :p

ian
14th September 2006, 11:23 PM
The Doc confirmed it the next day. Same doc. Looked me square in the eye and said “You have chicken pox – how old are you?”
“Thirty”, came my sheepish reply. I could tell he wouldn’t approve of my decision to turn 30.
“Thirty? Oh wow – you’re going to be really sick!”
I love my doctor.
He was right, of course – I was really sick. Not just itchy, but really crook. http://www.ubeaut.biz/blotto.bmp I slept several times a day and anywhere between ten to sixteen hours at night.

Now, if I look back on my life since I decided to turn 30, I see a decided pattern. It all started with a crook back, which is an ailment often reserved for old-timers. Then I busted a rib – something that an active teenager may complain of. The lurgy can fit into any time of life, but the chicken pox is usually for kids under the age of 10. My ailments seem to be getting younger and younger! What’s around the corner?? Nappy rash???:confused:
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So to all the younger members of this Forum; if you are thinking of turning 30, please take my advice. Don’t. It’s not worth it. http://www.ubeaut.biz/oldman.gifI remember turning 30.
hadn't met my wife
still had both parents
didn't have kids, or a morgage, or major responsibilities drove my own choice of car

then I turned 40
only one parent left
had a wife and a morgage and two cats
was reduced to driving the wife's choice of car (red MX-5 :p )

then I turned 50
still have one parent (now pushing 85) plus the darling wife and a kid (who coincidently also has chicken pox!) plus a morgage, two cats and four fish (but at least I get to drive my choice of car ;) )

now 50 is more than a year ago and in the past year I've found I can't read or do anything involving detail without glasses and sometimes a magnifing glass, still have the morgage, cats and the fish
Plus measles in May and wait for what else is brought home from school...


and you complan about turning 30!


get better

ian

journeyman Mick
15th September 2006, 12:30 AM
Brendan,
it's quite possible not to turn 30 if you want to. It seems that not everybody knows that your age is not directly related to how many years you've been around. For about ten years or so, when people asked me my age I'd tell them truthfully that I was 21. I lived life, partied, drank, bought expensive toys and generally behaved like a 21 year old. That lasted till I was in my early 30's. I did mature a bit then and I was a 25 year old for nearly ten years then. Didn't party so hard or drink that much, but still had expensive toys and few responsibilities. Unfortunately you can't hold back time forever and I woke up one morning and was 40 years old.:eek: Bugger that was a real shock, let me tell you, from 25 to 40 overnight.:rolleyes:
If you reckon turning 30 has been a shock, wait till you hit 40, your eyesight fails, your muscles weaken, your hair turns grey (if it hasn't already fallen out:rolleyes: ), you need more sleep etc etc.:(

Hang in there mate, hope you get better soon.

Mick

coastie
15th September 2006, 01:14 AM
Elizabeth Klubler Ross has written some good books on the alternative!!!
Hopes this makes all you whinging bludgers feel better!!!
I had a nice experience regarding this yesterday ,I was just sitting down and was about to watch an episode of the Sopranos when my next door neighbour
cam screaming up the driveway yelling my name and looking distraught
"Come quickly,I think Allan (her husband) is dead".So I raced over to her house to find him slumped in his favourite chair with no discernible movement. I looked to see if his chest was rising and falling but could not detect any movement, he was a paler shade of white I then looked closely at his eyes and could detect the slighest movement just then his chest began to shudder,and he began breathing very shalowly but breathing,poor old bugger had a stroke,went to visit him tonight he,s f***** ,cant speak ,doesnt recognise any bodyetc etc .He was a great old bloke 79 years old had an old xp falcon that he had done up and used to show and had won a few prizes with ,one of natures gentlemen he was.I hope this is not the end of him.So you see fellas the alternative ain't got much going for it!!!! :(

bennylaird
15th September 2006, 09:08 AM
Has anyone seen the Friday thread???????

It is Friday after all?????

Felder
15th September 2006, 09:54 AM
Benny,

Please don't hijack my Illness/Self-pity Thread. This is serious....:rolleyes:

I've already discovered that I've probably caught the chicken pox through the Forum, thanks to Ian.:rolleyes: He is the only person I have heard of that knows someone else with the plague! Makes sense, really...

:eek::eek:My computer can now pass a virus to a human!!:eek::eek:

bennylaird
15th September 2006, 09:56 AM
Had to post here mate, knew everyone would look so as they could pity you and your woes.:D :D

Terry B
15th September 2006, 10:42 AM
Benny,

Please don't hijack my Illness/Self-pity Thread. This is serious....:rolleyes:

I've already discovered that I've probably caught the chicken pox through the Forum, thanks to Ian.:rolleyes: He is the only person I have heard of that knows someone else with the plague! Makes sense, really...

:eek::eek:My computer can now pass a virus to a human!!:eek::eek:

What a skill! I must remember to disinfect my keyboard- Oh doesn't matter, I had the zoster when I was a kid so I'm immune. :eek: :eek:

silentC
15th September 2006, 11:08 AM
I had chicken pox as a kid and then had shingles at 22. Both caused by the Zoster. Shingles is FAR worse than the pox. I still have the scars :eek:

MajorPanic
15th September 2006, 08:25 PM
Brendan.........Mate!!!






You are gonna be ABSOLUTELY STUFFED by the time you turn 40!!!!!!!! ;) :D :D :D :D http://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon14.gif
So as a mate,... I'd recommend doing an action plan to help you over that milestone

kiwigeo
16th September 2006, 05:14 AM
Brendan,

Situps for the back (yeah, I didn't believe it either, but it's true)

Tex

Be careful with these...you can make the problem worse. If youre dead set on situps then do the Pilates style situps where you dont go all the way up. Get a physio to show you how to do them.

Plain old walking is good..

Munga
16th September 2006, 07:54 AM
SilentC, off & on through my life I'd heard about these shingles things but didn't realy know what they were & then about three months ago I got them in the eye, man I agree with you something one could do without.

Felder hang in there mate getting older has it's moments like sitting back wondering "how did I survive or get away with that" & "look at that young bugger he don't what he in for thats gonna hurt"

Tex B
16th September 2006, 08:56 PM
Quite right kiwigeo. I should have said crunches, or abdominal, or whatever they call situps now. Of course, we shouldn't do situps like we did years ago. But still strengthening the 'core' is a great cure for lower back problems. (He says as he tries to type with frozen peas on his elbow to reduce the swelling from a day in the shed).

And zovirax for the chicken pox. Wonder cure it is.

Tex

Terry B
17th September 2006, 12:17 AM
And zovirax for the chicken pox. Wonder cure it is.

Tex
Unfortunately this is probably not true for primary chicken pox but it is a good drug for shingles. For those that still want to try and use it for chicken pox it is not covered by the PBS(for the above reason) and is very expensive.

Felder
18th September 2006, 11:09 AM
Well the drug that the doc prescribed for me was called 'Famvil', also not covered by the PBS.

$220 for seven days worth :eek: , and it "can reduce the duration of the illness by two or three days".

Then the doc looked in his magic cupboard and found some free samples he'd been given. I kept my money. :)

bennylaird
18th September 2006, 11:13 AM
Take it you still at home bludging? Wouldn't want to spread it around to your workmates?

Felder
18th September 2006, 11:17 AM
Take it you still at home bludging? Wouldn't want to spread it around to your workmates?

I had a week off but I came back to work last Thursday.

I have little respect for my workmates. :rolleyes::D:D

bennylaird
18th September 2006, 11:21 AM
At least you stopped kissing them for a while though? Guess they were safe enough anyway as who hasn't caught it by the time they reach the ripe old age of 30 anyway? Watch out for Mumps, not much fun at all either:D :D :D

Felder
18th September 2006, 11:27 AM
Watch out for Mumps, not much fun at all either
I had the mumps when I was a kid, but I was talking to a friend of mine on the weekend who caught the mumps of his kids when he was 34. He said his ....errr......tackle ( :eek: ) swelled up to twice the normal size :eek::eek::eek:. That was thirty years ago, and he reckons that 'old lefty' can still give him a bit of pain if he sits the wrong way. :eek::o

bennylaird
18th September 2006, 11:30 AM
"no comment" still winching from the thought.......

Terry B
18th September 2006, 10:51 PM
I had the mumps when I was a kid, but I was talking to a friend of mine on the weekend who caught the mumps of his kids when he was 34. He said his ....errr......tackle ( :eek: ) swelled up to twice the normal size :eek::eek::eek:. That was thirty years ago, and he reckons that 'old lefty' can still give him a bit of pain if he sits the wrong way. :eek::o

The good news about mumps is that it is very uncommon now. As someone working in that industry I have seen a grand total of 1 case in 15 years. The childhood vaccination as been very effective.
Good on you for getting the free samples.

Felder
22nd September 2006, 11:52 AM
As someone working in that industry...
I'm tipping you're not a doctor - I can read your writing! :p

My poor little munchkin (daughter) woke up with spots yesterday morning. :( Community nurse confirmed chicken pox. :(:(

HoutBok
7th October 2006, 02:11 PM
My MIL (pushing 80) has a saying - "Old age is not for sissies".
Didn't think I qualified as "old aged" but sure can identify with that saying.
Every minute in the shed means an ache or pain somewhere - never know where next.