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Bodgy
23rd September 2005, 05:23 PM
This may be seen as presumptious and ungrateful, having only been a member for a short time and having taken far more than contributed, but I ask myself this each time I'm logged on.
The issue I wish to raise is this. Why do words that are used everywhere in our modern society get censored on this board? I can understand f$$$ and c$$$ as some people may continue to find this offensive. Other commonly used 'obscenities' such as ****, **** etc may be read each day in the national papers, heard on TV and even uttered by a Prince of the Realm (I'm connecting the logic by tying this to the concept of Queen's English, not out of respect for the kid or institution)
We adults, on an adult 'special interest' forum must behave with childish coyness, inputting $$ or ** or mis-spelling these common, useful and expressive words. This puerile silliness in no ways disguises what word we mean, not for an instant. Rather it draws attention to it.
Certainly, you will inevitably get some illiterate moron who will write $$$ three times in each sentence. Censor that moron, by all means. Not for using naughty words but for laziness and butchery of the most complex, expressive, powerful and beautiful language.
We're not little children, very few kids seem to venture here (apart from when they wish their homework or projects done for them). Anyway, try listening to them in any school playground.
I guess I just hate the dishonesty. We all know what the word is, most of us regularly use it without compunction, it just can't appear in text???
Why do the sponsors of this forum practice a censorship, that disappeared from general society two or three decades ago?
I leave myself open to attacks by those who would interpret this as a criticism of the forum and sponsors/moderators. I understand and admire their loyalty, but this is not meant to be an attack on anyone, least of all Forum administrators.
It is an enquiry as to why an outdated and moribund practice continues and an invitation to explain the rationale.
If this gets me rusticated and six of the best, thanks for all the help to date.
DanP
23rd September 2005, 05:32 PM
A good question and I have thought it myself on occasion, however, has an anecdote that explains it and I won't steal it from him. Suffice to say that there are quite young children who sometimes get on here and if I heard a shyte or similar come out of my childs mouth I would wash it out.
Dan
Toggy
23rd September 2005, 05:43 PM
Bodgy,
When you mention "Prince of the Realm" & "Queens" english; I hope you weren't casting aspersions that Charlie was one. :D Poor old Als' (ozwinner) alias will end up end up developing a nervous twitch or something.
Ken
Gumby
23rd September 2005, 07:01 PM
I think they have every right to censor as they see fit. It's their forum afterall. I also agree with it. If you want to talk a certain way, then do it but you have to respect the rights of others not to have to see it written. Putting words on a public, open forum is vastly different to saying whatever you like.
Correct me if I'm wrong but if you go out into the middle of Bourke St and scream the magic word a few times, aren't you breaking the law? We all must have some formn of censorship or the standards will go down the gurgler.
RETIRED
23rd September 2005, 07:22 PM
Ok I will try to answer why we have censorship on this board.
Contrary to popular belief it is not an adults only forum. A lot of children read this forum and as Dan said if his child used some of the language that is censored here it would be a case of mouthwash.
As you say the English language is probably the most descriptive language in the world. It does not need to be embellished with swear words.
Another point that you raise is that it is common on TV or in the press. TV has censorship by allowing certain things at certain times when the younger population is (should be) in bed. Our board is 24 hours a day, seven days a week and 52 weeks of the year, we never close and it is accessable at any time by everyone.
As for the press I have never seen half the words used on this forum in the better quality newspapers.
I think of this board as like being an employee who is meeting the bosses wife or husband for the first time and the manner in which you would talk to them. I know that there are some who would probably tell a rude joke but in the main I think everyone has manners and act accordingly.
The board is also multi-national, mult-racial, mult-religous and mult-cultural and what does not offend you could well be a total insult to someone else so I try to keep it neutral but allow the Aussie traits to come through. This board is a little more liberal than most others in the content and if some of this stuff was posted on an overseas board you would probably end up in court.
That is the reason for the censorship. Like it or lump it I shall continue to moderate it as I think it should be moderated for the benefit of all who view it.
Gumby
23rd September 2005, 07:53 PM
The board is also multi-national, mult-racial, mult-religous and mult-cultural
You left out multi-intelligental. We cover a broad range in here :D
outback
23rd September 2005, 07:55 PM
The board is also multi-national, mult-racial, mult-religous multi personalitied and mult-cultural
and that's just me. :D
Whip me, beat me, censor me, ya can't get rid of me that easy.
ozwinner
23rd September 2005, 08:01 PM
You left out multi-intelligental. We cover a broad range in here :D
They must do, they let you in........
Mhwwhahahahah :D
Al :D
ozwinner
23rd September 2005, 08:16 PM
Just as a side point, Ive been visiting this forum.
Yeah I know, Ive been two timeing you lot. :eek:
But I still loves ya all heaps. :o
Anyway, You think this forum is old fashioned?
Go here.
http://www.twoguysgarage.com/forum/
I cant even put in more than one smilie before I get told off.
Al :)
Zed
23rd September 2005, 08:30 PM
Id just like to say ***** & *****, besides your all ****** and *****. The *** moderators are **********, filthy ******!!!! Your type really make me want to *******, not to mention *******, ****, **** & ************!!!!
:D
Grunt
23rd September 2005, 08:34 PM
Well said Zed. Up to your usual elequent standard.
craigb
23rd September 2005, 08:54 PM
When Darren and I were talking to Neil at the Sydney show, he mentioned that he was thinking of having , for want of a better term, an "anything goes" forum.
The idea was that it wouldn't be generally accessable. You'd have to request access and that by doing so you'd waive your rights to be offended, so to speak.
Needless to say I thought it was a great idea :D
Is this still a possibility?
Stu in Tokyo
23rd September 2005, 09:06 PM
Bodgy, I hear what you are saying, but I, for one, like the fact that the language used here has to be up to a certain level, I think this is good.
If one wishes to trash talk, go ahead, head down to your local watering hole and have at it. I'm no prude, but at the same time, do we have to live in a culture where every second word I'd not say in front of my mother?
I have two young daughters, and when some of my single buddies come around it does not take long before I have to say "Watch your mouth" as they are not around kids and feel it is OK to curse like a sailor, I don't.
I personally think less of a man who constantly peppers his conversation with curse or swear words, it shows, at the very least, a lack of imagination.
Cheers!
Cagey
23rd September 2005, 09:10 PM
i sdeopidfo hate censorship. it really ihbhakas asdus ucsuhsdh ski sduiuhsd me. sometimes jhsdjdj asduj aouiiiwqwiiewi m oiiwqqjjcilc oiqioqi and i jjaoasoi jajiaiowqeirj jhsdcis7d kjewnnl, but usually after a little while i jjsiusuisiu nnwqiufwqh kjsansaoiu limwekweqji it:):):):):rolleyes::cool::p;):D:confused::o:eek::(:mad:
sorry i am very emotional right now
ele__13
23rd September 2005, 09:19 PM
Oh godhetypeslikeme specially if i get all excited and forget to push the space bar lol cheers all jules
doug the slug
23rd September 2005, 09:26 PM
I used to spend a lot of time in a chatroom that was excellent, and it was unmoderated. Well it was moderated by the members themselves if you know what i mean. after a year or so the undesireables moved in, dug a deep hole and refused to budge. the rooms owner had no choice but to introduce moderation but its nowhere near the room it used to be.
I dont want that to happen to this forum, so and the other moderators - PLEASE KEEP DOING THE WONDERFUL JOB YOU ARE DOINGhttp://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon12.gif
rick_rine
23rd September 2005, 09:29 PM
[QUOTE=]Ok I will try to answer why we have censorship on this board.
As you say the English language is probably the most descriptive language in the world. It does not need to be embellished with swear words.
I agree , It is nice to have a clean board . Maybe sometimes , in our opinion , it is over board , I remember my very first post about the death of Les Miller I said I was a sh**hou** woodworker at school and was surprised this was censored , I mean really , kids use much worse language but also swearing is just really a lazy way of saying something . It would have been just as clear for me to say I was useless at woodwork at school .
I like the idea of a "clean " forum . There is no need for rude words and I'm not Christian or anything . I just agree there is no need for it and there is nothing worse than hearing foul language all the time .
Keep up the good work moderaters and great forum .
Congrats.
Rick.
Pat
23rd September 2005, 09:38 PM
I was not going to reply, but I thought "what the hay???". I can swear like anyone else, using descriptive noun and adjectives to descibe various ideas. One of the challanges of this forum is, when you wish to describe an idea/item/person, where in private conversation the words may start with F's, S's, W's or maybe a C.
Here you have to be a bit more thoughtful . . . If you brought an item that did not function in the matter prescribed, instead of calling it "a piece of S***"", you have to think about what you are about to say, how to say it and how to get the message thru.
So, Bodgy, think as the forum as a character building device, to expand your horizons and to be able to curse, without getting into trouble with the missus!
Zed
23rd September 2005, 09:51 PM
who said that swearing means you dont have imagination ? I defy you!!! I agree extranious expletives are redundant and belong in a pub or the gutter but I for one think that swearing does not mean you got no imagination. Im good at swearing, I am also eloquent and well spoken, please peruse past posts all over this site - I am hopeful (in a head wobbling kind of way) you'll find good examples of both. I can insult you just as well without swearing as I can with!!!
IMNSHO the forum is fine as it is, if they have a sweary section - im there!
think about this : how many GOOD jokes do you know that dont swear or have a victim ? not many...
Get ******!! :-)
savage
23rd September 2005, 10:06 PM
I was not going to reply, but I thought "what the hay???". I can swear like anyone else, using descriptive noun and adjectives to descibe various ideas. One of the challanges of this forum is, when you wish to describe an idea/item/person, where in private conversation the words may start with F's, S's, W's or maybe a C.
Here you have to be a bit more thoughtful . . . If you brought an item that did not function in the matter prescribed, instead of calling it "a piece of S***"", you have to think about what you are about to say, how to say it and how to get the message thru.
So, Bodgy, think as the forum as a character building device, to expand your horizons and to be able to curse, without getting into trouble with the missus!
G'Day All,
I must agree, keep up the good work, it is a pleasure to read this forum, I try to think about what I write, then re-read before I post and edit if I miss anything to the best of my education!:o ...I've witnessed what happens here if you make a spelling mistake, so there is no way I am about to put my head on the block and swear!:eek: ...Plus we don't need it!..:)
savage.:D
Grunt
23rd September 2005, 10:07 PM
As for the press I have never seen half the words used on this forum in the better quality newspapers.
A search of The Age online (www.theage.com.au) has
The S word appearing in 552 times.
The F word appearing 26 times.
The W word appears 68 times.
The C word does not appear.
I'm not saying that these should be allowed but they do appear in Melbourne's broadsheet.
rick_rine
23rd September 2005, 10:13 PM
A search of The Age online (www.theage.com.au (http://www.theage.com.au)) has
The S word appearing in 552 times.
The F word appearing 26 times.
The W word appears 68 times.
The C word does not appear.
I'm not saying that these should be allowed but they do appear in Melbourne's broadsheet.
No idea what your talking about Grunt
Please be clear and finish your sentences . I am at a loss .
What do you mean by " the S word ", "the F word " , "The W word " and "The C word " .
Looking forward to your quickest reply .
Richard
doug the slug
23rd September 2005, 10:42 PM
I just raised the point in another thread in the forum that apparrently you cnat say $H!T
in text but its quite ok to have a graphic with the words
$H!Thot waxtix
cos this is one of the owner's products. now at risk of castigation by the owner, a swarm of moderators, and the scorn of my fellow forum members, surely if this word is a part of the name of one of the owners products, its an acceptable word on the forum, or am i missing something here?
Bodgy
23rd September 2005, 11:00 PM
Hadn't intended to write anything until more posts were in, but I can't help but pass one comment.
Savage, who comes down firmly on the 'conservative' side has, as his Avatar, a picture of Billy Connelly. Has anyone ever been to a Billy Connelly show??
A few inconsistencies emerge, gentlemen.....
savage
23rd September 2005, 11:19 PM
Hadn't intended to write anything until more posts were in, but I can't help but pass one comment.
Savage, who comes down firmly on the 'conservative' side has, as his Avatar, a picture of Billy Connelly. Has anyone ever been to a Billy Connelly show??
A few inconsistencies emerge, gentlemen.....
Yes you are right!..But those that go to see Billy, do so expecting to be personally bombarded with all nature of colourful words, don't they?...:) You should read "Billy" by Pamela Stephenson, Billy was an abused child in everyway you could imagine and by nearly every adult in his very early life. I like him and I listen to him, because I choose to, and I know what I am to expect, but here there are ladies and children present and I choose to treat them with the respect due to them, it was the way I was brought up. What I personally choose for entertainment is up to me, am not one to be offended easily!..:p
savage.:D
JDarvall
24th September 2005, 12:28 AM
But whats censored on this forum is not just single words is it .... whole sentences of stuff is wiped clean as well. Happened to me a few times.
Must be tricky for the moderators to work out what should be erased and what should be left.
I noticed something that was erased from my post recently. I don't think it was that bad. It was in that 'bloody magpie' post.
I asked the question........ ;)
A seasonal thing. ..... I've heard this story from a couple of people. Sounds outragious, so I really wanted to know if that was true......YET..... someone erased that question entirely and nobody saw it. .... Its not that bad a question is it. ??? :confused:
Gumby
24th September 2005, 12:38 AM
Now that reminds me, we should definitely censor too many ........ 's and ,,,,,, 's :rolleyes:
Grunt
24th September 2005, 03:57 AM
No idea what your talking about Grunt
Please be clear and finish your sentences . I am at a loss .
What do you mean by " the S word ", "the F word " , "The W word " and "The C word " .
Looking forward to your quickest reply .
Richard
Sorry,
The S Word = ****
The F word = ****
The C word = ****
The W word = ******
Rocker
24th September 2005, 05:50 AM
Despite what at least one forum member has alleged, I am not a prude. However, if the forum were not moderated, I think it would probably rapidly degenerate into a place where members were at one anothers' throats over issues nothing to do with woodworking. We have seen how worked up people can get over matters like spelling, politics, religion, the monarchy, as well as sex and gender. All of these issues are important and need to be discussed, but not here in this forum, which is run, out of the goodness of their hearts -I can't believe there is any profit in it - by the forum owners. I believe the moderators are doing a great job, despite having been censored myself on the odd occasion. If people want to indulge in swearing, or discussion on any of the topics that are censored here, there are numerous places where they can do so. The judicious moderation of this forum keeps its focus where it should be, on woodworking.
Rocker
BigPop
24th September 2005, 07:29 AM
I also agree that it should be moderated.
(On Soapbox)
I am no prude and far from one that's for sure but just because you can hear 'some kids' using profane or for want a better term 'colourful' language doesn't mean all of them do and that to me alone is not a good enough excuse to allow it as open slather on the forum, let alone the ladies and other respectable people that grace these pages.
I treat my posts the same as I would when I go out in public - I don't openly swear at/to people I don't know, shop assistants etc (although I would like to sometimes :):):)) nor at other members of the public (maybe under my breath but not out loudly and openly).
Would you tolerate your kids and family members, guests etc using 'colourful' language around your house. Some would I know but most not. I know I sure don't and won't tolerate it.
Keep it as it is - does no harm and keeps some of the 'heavy debates' on a more respectable level.
(Off soapboax)
Munga
24th September 2005, 07:50 AM
I am definately not a prude not a dab hand with a pen and my use of the proper english is not what it should be but that is my fault for not attending school as long as I should have, catch me in the shed when something goes wrong or when the stock wont do what their supposed to and I can beat any bullocky in descriptive language. When ladies or children are around you wont hear any of this and that's the way I think it should be.
One only has to stand outside a shopping center or school and listen to the kids (particularly the girls) to hear what a downslide our society is taking, I drive a school bus and the kids now know don't use that language on the bus also if they put a tape or CD on with that sort of language in it I'll throw it out the window and not one kid complains, if a new kid gets on the others bring him/her into line very quickly.
We constantly hear complaints about kids leaving school unable to read, write, spell and their maths leaves alot to be desired (Current Affair just recently), but their langauge is very colourful. I think if schools spent more time on the three R's, less on social issues and brought back censorship our future generation will be far better off. I have listened to a teacher tell a grade 9 student to shut the f--- up and he's a f---ing idiot, what a teacher what hope our kids.
OK give me as flogging but thats my rant and rave keep up the censoring as it is now.
Cheers Arch.
JDarvall
24th September 2005, 08:30 AM
Arch,,,,,I think you've got a strong point.
Something very wrong in young kids swearing to that extent. Quite vulgar really.
I was working in the shed one day and this young kid pulls up on his bike....maybe 7 years old..... screams out to his mates, right in front of me, ' Hey, ya f*** head !! , wait up ! ,,,,,don't you want a smoke !! ' ....looks around at me with this defiant look on his face, to see my reaction, with a fag dangling out of his mouth.......Then took off.
7 years old. :rolleyes: ....... I swear on occation, but usually only when I have an accident, like dropping a hammer on my foot,,,,,,,but growing up, I was never like that...very few kids were like that. Now they seem to be everywhere. I really didn't start feel comfortable swearing until I was 18, and even then only with my mates.
MICKYG
24th September 2005, 08:30 AM
Fellow woodies,
Without the censorship or a form of control on this forum it would be such that most would not bother clicking on to have a look and maybe add a comment or an idea or two. Its just as easy to type in something acceptable to everyone as it is to carry with a load of #%@T. This particular forum it is one of the best around, and thats not just happened it has been nurtured together with commonsense approach and a modicum of censorship by moderators.
My opinion is leave the $#%@ out of it and lets all enjoy what has been provided for our use and education if you like. There is not one who would frequent this forum who did not learn somthing or a new approach to a problem from the postings contained here. :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D D
I do not believe we should hide behind a keyboard in order to cut the legs of some other poor bas$@#d who may have got it wrong. Most people swear or get riled up at some time but this is not the place to air or demonstrate this, whats the point in typing in something which gives that impression ? That is my few pennys worth.
Regards Mike. :D
DPB
24th September 2005, 09:22 AM
<TABLE cellSpacing=7 cellPadding=0 width=310 border=0><TBODY><TR><TD align=middle colSpan=2><TR><TD>http://www.cusscontrol.com/cimages/spcrwht.gif</TD><TD align=top>Swearing Imposes a Personal Penalty
It gives a bad impression
It makes you unpleasant to be with
It endangers your relationships
It's a tool for whiners and complainers
It reduces respect people have for you
It shows you don't have control
It's a sign of a bad attitude
It discloses a lack of character
It's immature
It reflects ignorance
It sets a bad example
Swearing is Bad for Society
It contributes to the decline of civility
It represents the dumbing down of Australia
It offends more people than you think
It makes others uncomfortable
It is disrespectful of others
It turns discussions into arguments
It can be a sign of hostility
It can lead to violence
Swearing corrupts the English language
It's abrasive, lazy language
It doesn't communicate clearly
It neglects more meaningful words
It lacks imagination
It has lost its effectiveness
:)
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Harry72
24th September 2005, 09:36 AM
In the ol'days woodworkers were considered gentlemen... gentlemen dont swear in front of women and children!
Im not against the use of swear words and use them myself regularly in everyday life, there is a place and time that is quite OK for this to happen... this forum is not one of them.
Its simple really its called manners and respect, some people find it hard to grasp some dont... do you still open the gate for SWMBO?
Iain
24th September 2005, 09:48 AM
I swore at a female social worker once, she told me I shouldn't swear in front of a lady, my response was that I don't and I didn't.
As for Neils Wax stix, they are thots made from shi, which is part of his secret process.
JackoH
24th September 2005, 10:37 AM
I wrote this some time ago and put it into cold storage. I think it is probably an apt time to bring it out, dust it off, and post it on this forum. :p
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I was browsing through various topics which have come up from time to time in the forums (should that be fora?) on this BB, and I came across the one on swearing and the English language etc.
This topic, opened a ‘whole new Pandora’s box of worms’ to quote a well known radio personality.
On TV swearing is beeped out before 8-30pm. Yet to any half intelligent being over the age of about six years it is perfectly obvious what the character said. After 8-30pm when all the impressionable young things have gone to bed, (as if!) anything goes. If you doubt the swearing ability of the younger generation just travel on public transport in Melbourne at school finishing time and listen to the language, guaranteed to shock any one. You may even learn some new words.
‘Bugger’ has become an accepted, even comical word, mainly through the recent efforts of the advertisers of Toyota products. The derivation of ‘bugger’ is as bad, if not worse than any other profanity. On the radio ‘bulltish’ and ‘carp’ are regularly used as replacements. In the print medium words usually appear with only the first and last letters, dashes taking the place of the missing letters e.g. s- - t or f - - k. As if anyone with half a brain could not fill in the empty spaces!
Many of these ‘swear words’ are derived from old Anglo-Saxon language and were in common usage down through the ages. Just read the Bible or Chaucer, and later Shakespeare.
The same double standard seems to be creeping onto this BB. Some time ago, I posted ‘Wooden tit’on the joke forum. A couple of days later I noticed that it had been censored and now read ’Wooden’t’ it. (Actually, I think the second one is better!)
At the same time our Kiwi friends are being slandered time and again in another forum, by the old ‘sheep’ jokes in a way which, in my humble opinion is way over the top. As for the posts on this board about the poor old Americans, the less said the better. There are plenty of other examples of intolerance, bigotry, and insensitivity.
I claim to have a sense of humour as good as the next man’s, and would be the first to agree that most of us are only trying to be funny. But ladies and gentlemen, enough is enough.
However I guess that in the final analysis this is Neil’s BB and he and his moderators, also have varied opinions, and as they have the last word can do with it what they like!
As I can already feel the righteous indignation that this post will engender, I apologise in advance to any one who feels offended. This is not a personal attack on any one in particular but rather a cry of anguish and criticism directed at the times we live in! So please accept it in the spirit in which it was meant. I know, I’m beginning to sound like my father and his father before him. But I really do wonder if we are rushing headlong down the slippery slope to oblivion.
There, I feel a lot better now! :D
Bodgy
24th September 2005, 11:30 AM
Again, I couldn't let this one go by.
Many of you have mentioned 'protecting' ladies from bad language. Isn't that presumptious and infers that the 'little lady' needs your protection and in some way is inferior? Try telling that to most women, particluarly those under 40! You'd come away bleeding.
Daddles
24th September 2005, 12:06 PM
Oh dear, swearing is a sign of ignorance, lack of imagination, etc.
These sorts of statements annoy me, because they are wrong. Simply chucking around words commonly accepted as swear words does indeed show a lack of imagination and a lack of care for the written or spoken word, a lack of care for what you are expressing. That can be through ignorance and sometimes is.
However, were you aware that most of our swear words were in common useage in times past, but were ostracised by the church or political leaders trying to exert control by destroying the old language? (sound familiar? we did the same to the aboriginees). The reason most of our swear words originate from the anglo saxon is because the normans, after their conquest of England, attempted to reinforce their control by destroying the old language. Interesting eh?
But despite the history of censorship (and it always comes down to trying to control the expression of someone else), at the benign level it is employed on this forum, it can be useful. As employed here, the 'censorship' (a poor term used only because it is the one that has been employed through this thread) demands that posters on this forum show a bit of thought about what they write. No, not finding fancy ways around the swear filter, but by expressing what they mean in colourful and powerful ways without resorting to swear words. On the other hand, it is still possible to swear but to do so intelligently and for emphasis.
A fluent swearer is not someone who can offend for five minutes without repeating himself ... or just by constantly repeating two or three favourites. A fluent swearer is someone who understands the empahasis a well placed profanity can add to a phrase and uses it for that purpose alone - to add a particular emphasis. When words are used correctly, they can not be simply replaced with something else - this is why you will find swear words in my writing, but not many. Words NEVER work in isolation - there are ties and energy flows that tie every word to its neighbours, sentences to theirs, paragraphs to theirs. In a well written piece of prose, changing one word can result in changing up to an entire page - believe me, I've sweated blood doing just that.
The true test of swearing, like all other tests of writing and the spoken word, is invisibility. You should not be able to 'see' the word - it should not stand out from the rest. Its effect should be there, because if that effect is not, the word is not needed and should be deleted. However, you should not be aware of the word itself.
Much of the swearing that occurs, and nearly all of it by young people and by prolific swearers, fails the above test and is just poor use of language. However, were you to look at the use of adverbs, you will find greater abuse. Were you to look at the use of cliches, you would find greater abuse. And so on, apart from a few individuals who really need to have their vocal chords paralysed for a period.
mate, you are doing a good job and while I have, on occasion, felt the blade your axe, you've invariably been right. I love the freedom in this forum and wouldn't like to see it lost because because some individuals abused it with resulting restrictions. I can understand the frustration of being moderated when you didn't think you needed it, but we've got a big paddock to play in here - let's just accept the fences that are there and live within them. I certainly plan to.
Cheers
Richard
Iain
24th September 2005, 12:50 PM
Thankyou Richard, one of the reasons I find Eddie Murphy's movies a bit hard to swallow, the constant use of certain words I find objectionable.
However, another Harrison Ford series of adventure movies used one word in one movie, S**t, and I thought it was appropriate in the scene in question.
Whichs shows that entertainment can be provided without obscenities.
And I might add, being pure myself, has never ever had to use his axe :p
Bodgy
24th September 2005, 12:59 PM
Maybe to illustrate one of Daddles points. I hope it is in context Richard, great contribution, apologies if I've mis-interpreted you.
Phrases make up part of our beautiful language. Consider 'a kick in the ***' beautifully expressive, rolls off the tongue, delivers a solid meaning, kick in the buttocks, bottom, behind, gluteous maximus - not the same.
"who gives a flying ***', a flying rut, episode of intimacy, coitus? No.
I agree that over use and brain dead repetitive use of these words is offensive and boring. Save them to make a point, to show passion, to shock etc.
As previously stated, read Shakespeare, greatest playwrite ever.
Another point I was making, was my dislike of filling in the words with *** to escape the axe. We all know what is meant, especially the kids. This seems so coy and childish, rather like curtains for piano legs. How about we go the Nixon route - expletive deleted. Expleded for short.
Expleded Hot Wax?
Sturdee
24th September 2005, 05:29 PM
Another point I was making, was my dislike of filling in the words with *** to escape the axe. We all know what is meant, especially the kids. This seems so coy and childish, rather like curtains for piano legs.
I agree with that point, it is childish and it is overdone. This puerile attempt to beat the swear filter is getting more and more annoying and if not checked will drive people away from this board.
As for the examples "a kick in the ***" and "who gives a flying ***" can easily be replaced with " a kick up the bum " and " who gives a damm " none of which would offend.
I support in his liberal attitude of enforcing the rules to make the board pleasant for all. This IMO is not censorship, for our ideas are not censored, but an enforcement of an acceptable standard of debate.
Peter.
Clinton1
24th September 2005, 06:08 PM
Well said Peter.
Skew ChiDAMN!!
24th September 2005, 07:27 PM
I agree with Richard (daddles), to an extent.
My ol' gramps, a crusty ol' codger, could cuss up a blue streak. When things went wrong he could make a bullocky blush. But I can't say that I remember his ever using any four-letter words in his tirades, just plain english. I'm not saying he didn't use 'em, if he did they blended in with, and were concealed by, the content of what he was saying.
It seems to be a lost art nowadays; I blame hollywood. ;)
I tell a lie; he was never one for fancy words and he always called what went into the pan sh*t. It wasn't a word he used for swearing though; to him 'twas a simple noun. [shrug]
echnidna
24th September 2005, 08:22 PM
Maybe this forum is approaching the point in time where rough language will be on another password protected area to the general woodworking areas.
doug the slug
24th September 2005, 08:27 PM
Maybe this forum is approaching the point in time where rough language will be on another password protected area to the general woodworking areas.
I for one would hate to see it go that way,it would be swearing for swearings sake
rick_rine
24th September 2005, 08:35 PM
Sorry,
The S Word = ****
The F word = ****
The C word = ****
The W word = ******
Thanks for clearing that up Grunt . I understand now .
Iain
24th September 2005, 08:55 PM
Poo
Driver
24th September 2005, 09:31 PM
... This puerile attempt to beat the swear filter is getting more and more annoying and if not checked will drive people away from this board.
...
I support in his liberal attitude of enforcing the rules to make the board pleasant for all. This IMO is not censorship, for our ideas are not censored, but an enforcement of an acceptable standard of debate.
Peter
I tried to give you a greenie for this but I couldn't. However, let me say that I agree with you completely. I'm happy with the way applies the axe. He has chopped me a couple of times. I've never felt aggrieved about it.
Col
Sturdee
25th September 2005, 04:14 AM
Peter
I tried to give you a greenie for this but I couldn't. However, let me say that I agree with you completely. I'm happy with the way applies the axe. He has chopped me a couple of times. I've never felt aggrieved about it.
Col
Thanks Col,
At first I was going to refrain from commenting for I believe that and the other moderators, both Shane and Stuart, are very fair and evenhanded in their moderating.
They neither fear or favour anyone. If you exceed the limits they will moderate on your wording, and that IMO is not censoring, of your post.
BTW I believe that even Neil has had one of his posts mederated. :eek: So it can happen to anyone. :D
Peter.
ele__13
25th September 2005, 06:56 AM
A search of The Age online (www.theage.com.au (http://www.theage.com.au)) has
The S word appearing in 552 times.
The F word appearing 26 times.
The W word appears 68 times.
The C word does not appear.
I'm not saying that these should be allowed but they do appear in Melbourne's broadsheet.
i know the other words unfortunatly have worked with foster kids that would make ur hair curl at the age of 8 whp can tell u to go get reproduced and exactly how to do it .. which i think in this day and age ... but wat is the W one ....
we have a 14 yr old foster daughter who used to have every second word as a Wude one who in 3 mths has grown out of this stupidity .... so if we can re train her everyone else has a hope of growing out of the language as well have a lovely day im off to work ... at 6am cya jules
aabb
25th September 2005, 06:35 PM
This is a very pleasant board to visit and I for one would like to see it that way. There is no need for swearing or other offensive behaviour .. plenty of that elsewhere on the net for those wishing to indulge.
My full support to the moderators.
Albert
RufflyRustic
25th September 2005, 07:03 PM
Favourite Movie - has only one swearword - The Saint.
One of my most memorable moments with my Dad (who, by the way, doesn't swear) - Yep, the one time he swore and I've never forgotten the impact it had on me.
If my kids swore at me, they'd be blowing soap bubbles for a week.
I'm no angel, but I am careful and considerate of my language around others, including all of you, my fellow forum members.
The best example of what not to be like:
I have to listen to the neighbours over the backfence, swearing at their kids and each other *Every*Single*Day! *Every*Hour* they are home and not asleep. Let's just say every common swear word gets a workout in the same breath.
Anyway, I appreciate the forum without the swearwords. If they are actually needed, I prefer #@*&^$@*& instead.
Cheers
Wendy
savage
25th September 2005, 08:58 PM
Favourite Movie - has only one swearword - The Saint.
One of my most memorable moments with my Dad (who, by the way, doesn't swear) - Yep, the one time he swore and I've never forgotten the impact it had on me.
If my kids swore at me, they'd be blowing soap bubbles for a week.
I'm no angel, but I am careful and considerate of my language around others, including all of you, my fellow forum members.
The best example of what not to be like:
I have to listen to the neighbours over the backfence, swearing at their kids and each other *Every*Single*Day! *Every*Hour* they are home and not asleep. Let's just say every common swear word gets a workout in the same breath.
Anyway, I appreciate the forum without the swearwords. If they are actually needed, I prefer #@*&^$@*& instead.
Cheers
Wendy
G'Day RR,
Hear!...Hear!...must agree, makes the place a little more pleasant the the eye and mind!..:)
savage.
Bodgy
25th September 2005, 10:08 PM
I seem to be in the minority, one lonely voice in the wilderness. Graceful in defeat, I bow to the overwhelming verdict.
Can't help but note that there do seem to be a great number of logical inconsistencies in the rationale advanced by the conservative side (99.68% - the worm splatted against the ceiling and stayed there)
Anyway, as I said when I posed this question, I have gained far more, from the Forum, than I contribute, so not another word on this topic, 4 letters or not.
As said, 'like it or lump it'. I shall ******* lump it! (that's 7 letters).
doug the slug
25th September 2005, 11:43 PM
before you go bodgy have a look at this peice of censorship
http://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/showthread.php?p=203250#post203250
this is a classic in the over censorship of the T word
E. maculata
26th September 2005, 12:53 AM
I like Daddles' reply on the origins of "blue" language, even the time setting Norman V Saxon reminds me of the old Monty Python line "suppression of expression is repression, help help I'm being repressed"
Wongo
26th September 2005, 10:30 AM
I don't like swearing and can see no point of doing so.
Bodgy
26th September 2005, 10:38 AM
before you go bodgy have a look at this peice of censorship
http://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/showthread.php?p=203250#post203250
this is a classic in the over censorship of the T word
Love it Doug. I didn't even realise the T word was classed as an obscenity!
Regarding Daddles bit on the origins of the words and repression thereof, the moral majority held sway during the reign of Victoria, when most of Britain's Empire was gained and/or consolidated. Hence it's these ex colonies who get all tishy about these old words. Victoria married Albert, who was a Lutheran (pretty strict and prudish). Their son was an absolute drunken slob and a lecher, a great disappointment. It was probably a reaction to the boy which pushed Viccy, with Alberts encouragement to new heights of prudery and sexual denial.
waynea
26th September 2005, 11:54 AM
I like the way the forum is at present. There is enough descriptive language around at present, without adding it to the forum.
I mean, when you hit your finger with the hammer, suffer from kickback, take too much wood off the cut, stuff up a perfectly good piece (you spent hours finding) of timber, trying to sand your fingerprints off, just seeing how sharp that blade really is.
Let's leave those words where they belong - in the shop :D
Cheers
Wayne
Christopha
27th September 2005, 12:11 AM
;) "Let's leave those words where they belong - in the shop"......
What are ya? Sums ortaflamin' idjut??? Use them sorta words inna shop and you are gunna get run outa town ya fowl mouthed idjut!!! That sorta lingo belongs in the SHED... or maybe in the back paddock when them old ewewes is playin' up or p'raps when yer fishin' and you hook the wrong mullet... ;)
"Shops" is where you go "Shopping" bonehead, them stupid, ugly (compared to ), world invading, hurricane loving, groundhog watchin' plonkers from Hamerica use the word all wrong all of the time and the poor pricks (OOPS!!) don't even know we are all laughin' at their crook spellig an gramma!
JackoH
27th September 2005, 09:32 AM
You forgot to mention "lumber" Chris!
silentC
27th September 2005, 09:47 AM
I've got no problem with the censorship. Anyway, we have bugger all say in it, since we don't run the forum. Even if we decide here that it's all OK and swearing should be allowed, guess what? It wont change a thing ;)
My Grandfather never swore. Well, he used to say 'heck' sometimes. If he said 'bugger' you knew things were really bad. One night, his mother in law was sitting in the lounge room. She had this obsession with stoking the fire. Every few minutes she'd get up out of her chair and give it a prod with the poker. The old man was getting more and more agitated about it. Finally, enough was enough. He fixed her with a look and murmured "get to bed, woman...". He didn't need to swear to get his point across.
TEEJAY
30th September 2005, 02:07 PM
Here I am quickly onto this one :rolleyes: . I recon the forum is :cool: as it is. Keep it the way it is :D ;) :D
And for the moderators what a difficult, diligent, dedicated and often thankless job :)
Cheers
Zed
30th September 2005, 02:11 PM
thankless my @rse, everyone on this forum is constantly praising them for the wonderful job they do!
Grunt
30th September 2005, 03:03 PM
Ok they do a crap job and they annoy me.
old_picker
30th September 2005, 03:19 PM
If they want to censor swear words so what??
The information sharied on this forum is extremely valuable and if the rules are that we can't swear, well, fair enough. It also helps us use english to properly express ourselves instead of just diving into the grab bag of expletives when making a point.
Personally i am no saint and will regularly indulge in the use of the magic words any old time but because i am prepared to watch my language in this place, I have the not inconsiderable resources at my disposal.
If you want to use bad language there are thousads of other foums on the web where you can say whatever you like. Why don't you go to them and have your vicarious pleasure.
I just dont get why it is a big deal to the OP.
my 2c worth
ozwinner
2nd October 2005, 08:28 PM
Ok they do a crap job and they annoy me.
Nooo.
You do a crap job and you annoy them.
Al :D
RETIRED
2nd October 2005, 11:09 PM
To Metaboman: No it borders on Politics. :D:D:D:D:D
Grunt
2nd October 2005, 11:37 PM
Nooo.
You do a crap job and you annoy them.
Al
Damn, I've been found out.
biotechy2k
3rd October 2005, 07:53 AM
Many of you have mentioned 'protecting' ladies from bad language. Isn't that presumptious and infers that the 'little lady' needs your protection and in some way is inferior? Try telling that to most women, particluarly those under 40! You'd come away bleeding.[/QUOTE]
well being one of the members who does not possess the "Y" chromosome I don't take offense if people use expletives but if my children are around then I'll step in and usually ask to tone it down or keep out the ripe fruit so to speak
I look at it this way if some one swears and they swear alot that's part of them their intrinsic make up
but as Kids are great mimics and don't understand the nature of the language they are using they will repeat those words.
I was rushing past this stupid printer stand with no shoes on in my computer room and I gave it a really good kick with my foot so hard that the second last toe on my left foot ended up at right angles to the foot
Needless to say both rug rats in the same room saw this and the only thing I yelled and believe me I yelled out was REFRIGERATOR LOL
hubby and I made a conscious substitution anytime we would normally swear but after no. 1 son was born we made an effort and its now become habit
so instead of saying a swear word we tend to say Refrigerator
works for us but I do agree kids if they read this forum shouldn't have to read those words
Cheers Bio
doug the slug
3rd October 2005, 08:17 AM
....... and believe me I yelled out was REFRIGERATOR LOL
hubby and I made a conscious substitution anytime we would normally swear but after no. 1 son was born we made an effort and its now become habit
so instead of saying a swear word we tend to say Refrigerator
works for us but I do agree kids if they read this forum shouldn't have to read those words
Cheers Bio
Well refrigerate me!!! what a refrigerating good idea!!!!!http://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gifhttp://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gifhttp://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gif
Iain
3rd October 2005, 08:38 AM
Cool :rolleyes:
biotechy2k
3rd October 2005, 09:43 AM
Well refrigerate me!!! what a refrigerating good idea!!!!!http://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gifhttp://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gifhttp://www.woodworkforums.ubeaut.com.au/images/icons/icon10.gif
ROTFLMAO Well when you put it like that it does sound a bit silly but now when I've stuffed up or dropped a tool I don't realise I've yelled it out I guess it makes me more likely to look like a flammin idiot LOL
But when I've stabbed myself in the hand with an awl and someone walks into the work area with their kiddy winkles it is not good for business to let one rip so I have had people ask why I use the word refrigerator and most of them agree and I'm not embarrased by a precocious child saying Daddy she said a Bad word LOL
But the old chap next door who does some serious metal work in his work room under his house (Has a tendency to stuff up quiet abit) if you can tell by the
Usually Lound clang crash and then followed by some incredible expletive,
is a bit embarassing when you have visitors sitting on the back deck and their kids are over, I tend to apologise for his words if they can hear them clearly
I don't think this forum is overly moderated it has a nice flow and some of you chaps have an excellent sense of humour which is great,
I would hate to be attacked for spelling which are usually typos as I type very fast on a keyboard and they are much more sensitve than the old manual typewritter I learnt on 30 yrs ago
In fact I try not to swear at my key board because it is so sensitive
Cheers Bio
Sturdee
3rd October 2005, 09:50 AM
so instead of saying a swear word we tend to say Refrigerator
Which then becomes a defacto swearword. :( Kind of defeats the purpose and is now another word to be put in the swear detector.
Instead of saying "refrigerator" a better way is to let your mind, and not your emotions, control your talking.
Peter.
Wood Butcher
3rd October 2005, 10:26 AM
One of my most memorable moments with my Dad (who, by the way, doesn't swear) - Yep, the one time he swore and I've never forgotten the impact it had on me.
My dad favourite saying when things are against him "Damn rotten Sod of a thing." If you here him say this you know he is really tickd off. In 26 years I could count on two hands the number of times that he has used the s word and that is as bad as it gets (mind you if he is in the state of mind to use that word you want to get away damn quick:eek:). I believe that the levels of the use of swear words is unneccessary not so much here but in general day to day life. I personally try ti be careful with my language and I know that there is always another way to say something without swearing.
Ashore
4th October 2005, 01:21 PM
My dads was " Bugger me fat" , Never heard his say anything worse than that ,
Could express himself without needing to use swear words , always told me they were the tools of an ignorent man.
The trouble with life is there's no background music.
Russell
biotechy2k
4th October 2005, 02:15 PM
I think the most expletives I've heard are at the soccer pitch where my hubby coaches his team and well let me tell you it can get pretty ripe but if you swear at the ref you usually get a red card LOL
Cheers Bio
bennylaird
4th October 2005, 02:43 PM
Can see why, lol. Having to watch soccer is enough to make anyone swear......
Get them into real football......
(OK Soccer lovers, fill in your complaints in the box below)
biotechy2k
4th October 2005, 03:59 PM
[QUOTE=bennylaird]Can see why, lol. Having to watch soccer is enough to make anyone swear......
Get them into real football......
LOL I guess the original football isn't everyones cup of tea but some of the words well they would make your hair curl
we have a chap on the team who works in obesity and diabetes research who is cheerfully named Dr. Bollocks because he comes from Yorkshire and every time something goes wrong on the Pitch he yells out Oh Bollocks
to which a little kid turned then and asked his dad in the stands
What's a bollocks LOL
cracked me up
but seems to me they even swear in the genteel sport of croquete so I guess you'll find it everywear I think the saddest thing I heard was a kid no more than five letting rip with the F word
while my kids were with me
I said If Your father and I hear that word come out of your mouths
be prepared to scrub out the toilet with a toothbrush for an entire year
so far the threat has worked LOL
Cheers Bio
Wild Dingo
5th October 2005, 03:56 AM
Had a young lad of no more than 10 stand up to me the other day... I mean this little buggar stood there all of 2ft nothin arms on hips little jaw thrust out and told me to "F O you stinkin ol F B"... just like that!! Couldnt believe it... to explain... we have this creek that runs through the property from culverts under the road... I lob up home and see this little fella disappearing into the culvert and knowing theres a fair bit of water still flowing strongly through there I bolt over and call him out and when he came out the other side I simply told him "dont you know its dangerous under there matey? you better shoot of home eh?" at which point he did his "cool" act... an hour later he's back with mum and dad in tow bangin on the door when opened the WOMAN roared "you called my kid a F C you F B C" with dad standin with his arms folded behind her "come out here you FC an I will F show you what I Fn do with Fn C like you" Looking past them theres this little tacker standin there with the hugest grin on his face you could ever imagine... I mean he was really enjoyin himself!!!
Took some sortin out and the arrival of the local constablulary to get them to leave but brother I tell you this kid and his mom and dad had the foulest mouths Id ever heard... and mates Ive lived and worked in some rough places!!
Needless to say my mob of kids had a nice talk about language respect and dignity that night!
makes you wonder :rolleyes:
But then listen to some of the "music" nowadays... death suicide hate and a hell of a lot of negative darkness in it so really what with some of what loosely pass for "parents" its not really a wonder
respect for ones elders and others has gone by the wayside along with dignity and self respect decency and integrity are passing as the next generation sets the standards they wish to live within and we older ones fail to stop the political correctness and lack of discipline thats become the norm
Clinton1
5th October 2005, 06:32 AM
respect for ones elders and others has gone by the wayside along with dignity and self respect decency and integrity are passing as the next generation sets the standards they wish to live within and we older ones fail to stop the political correctness and lack of discipline thats become the norm
Not everywhere and for everyone mate.
You had a chat with your kids - so there is one family thats trying to walk the straight path. There are more of us out there.
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JDarvall
5th October 2005, 09:00 AM
Dingo......sounds like the sort of thing I get in my part of the world too....... The only adjective they know is the F word......and the only noun they know is the C word.
Sometimes I get jack of it.... Start thinking about moving to a more civilised part of the word...... to get away from the mother in law as well. 2 birds one stone sort of thing. :D
bennylaird
5th October 2005, 09:37 AM
Is the world so different or do we just see more of it with the amount of meadia and the greater number of people around?